I've never known anyone who was what he or she seemed; or at least, was only what he or she seemed. People carry worlds within them.
It's true. Humans are complications.
(Aliens hate us.)
Some people are more in control of their minds but we mostly choose the thousands of thoughts without conscious thought. Later, when we realize what we are (yes, of our own free will), we are alternately horrified and impressed with ourselves.
I wonder what God thinks?